R3: Retention, Referrals and Raving Fans Overview

R3: Retention, Referrals, and Raving Fans

This is an implementation guide for the R3 Framework. It will be updated and improved over time. If you don’t currently have customers or buyers, the tactical components of R3 won’t apply to you directly. However, the principles apply directly to marketing and sales. My general recommendation is to start reading it and, if at any point it doesn’t resonate, stop and reallocate the time to something else.

The Book:

You can get the full R3 handbook and a copy of the book here. Similar to my first book, Bumpers, I’m using it more as a forcing function to organize my thoughts than anything else. The outline has been sitting in my Google Drive for almost six years. Here’s the first section:

About:

Retention, Referrals, and Ravings Fans is an “accidental book”. I taught it about a dozen times as a live class. When I taught it, I taught it in the order it should be implemented: reverse order.  Building from the back to the front is far more efficient. Naturally, many people struggled with learning something backward.

My business partner at the time, Dan G, took all the recordings of the final live class and rearranged them in an easier-to-follow format. That became the outline for the original version of this book. Looking back, this was a really strange way to try and accomplish this - even the outline feels disjointed.

I will do my best to lay out the basics of what I call “R3” - but the ability to write one piece that smoothly integrates many complex concepts eludes me. Some of the concepts may be referenced and included as supplemental material. On some levels, I think this makes it easier to reference and study later, but I may be just trying to justify my shortcomings as a writer.

To prevent it from being too disjointed or confusing, entire sections are being removed and turned into mini-books or workbooks.

The first draft of the book is available for paid subs here

INTRODUCTION

I would like to get something out of the way right here in the beginning. This book will not do anything for you. As in, it will not magically come to life and do any of the work for you. Skim it, read it all the way through, read it 108 times..it won’t matter if you don’t do anything with it. 

Not only will this book not do anything for you, it also won’t make you more intelligent. To increase your intelligence, you have to learn. So, just to make sure we’re on the same page, that’s probably the best place to start. 

Increasing Your Intelligence

Intelligence is a funny thing. Everyone has their idea of what intelligence is. Street smarts? Book smarts? You don’t have to adopt my definition of intelligence but it will be helpful to understand what I mean when I say it. My working definition of Intelligence I adopted from a student of mine, Dr. Todd Snyder1. It’s simple, unifying, and practical:

“Intelligence is the ability to get what you want”

If your ability to get what you want increases, you have become more intelligent. I don’t care how well you remember something or repeat something, if you haven’t increased your ability to get what you want, you haven’t gotten more intelligent. 

How do you increase your ability to get what you want?

By learning. 

So what is learning? My definition:

Modifying your behavior based on new information. 

“Same circumstance, different behavior”

If you run into a problem and behave the way you have always behaved, you haven’t learned. 

So, using my working definitions, there is only one way to increase your intelligence…

Engaging The Field. 

I cover this in-depth in my book, Bumpers so I’m not going to go too deep here. (It’s the “Intention-Intervention” Gap chapter).

Engaging the Field is simple. When you get new information, test it against reality. Everything you read in this book is either:

  • Conceptual 

  • Theory 

  • Someone else’s data

All books, courses, etc are the same. Concepts, principles, strategies, and someone else’s data. Take them, engage the field, and get your data. Here’s how to get the data:

  1. Consume 

  2. Reflect 

  3. Enagage and implement

  4. Reflect again

  5. Repeat 

I have a free workshop on this process called “Engaging The Field”. You’ll find it in the resource hub mentioned above.

Okay, now that’s out of the way, here is a study guide for Retention, Referrals, and Raving Fans.


This is the foundation of R3. The concepts in Part 1 are the underpinnings of the entire framework.

  1. Stealth Influence

  2. Allegiance Capital

  3. System Reliability

  4. Turn The Required Into HFM

  5. Monkeys and Bananas

  6. Two Plow Horses Are Better Than One

You can see part one here:


  • About Black Holes, where you’re losing the most customers and money

  • The Big Three Black Holes

You can see Part 2 Here


  • Innovation Doesnt Sell

  • What Does Sell

  • The Five Key Decision Points

  • Turning Innovation Into Information

You can see Part 3 here


  • Inverting The Process To Maximize Return

  • Ace Cards

  • Buckets

  • The Main Campaigns

You can see Part 4 here


Engaging The Field & Resources

Hope you find this useful and decide to join us on this ride.

Live to Learn. Give to Earn

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